Wednesday, August 19, 2009

Thoughts run

It is so difficult to find a travelling kaki nowadays. I envy friends who have a fixed travelling mate to tour the world with. You know, those you can call upon to arrange the annual or bi-annual trip without worrying that they will backout on you or choose their boyfriends over you. I can't count on my family either as they are not really into travelling and they hate long haul flights.

Of course, the ideal solution would be to find myself a boyfriend (who enjoys travelling too), but haha the likelihood of that ever happening is close to zero at the moment. Or maybe not at all in this lifetime as I resign myself to becoming a 败犬.

Once upon a time, I thought I found a fun travelling mate. That was before she got attached and her boyfriend decided to object to our future expeditions. He objected during my lowest emotional point this year. I thought I could steal a breather, sort out of thoughts on this long awaited getaway and he had to say 'no' to her and even picked a fight with her. I think he's a complete moron but I'll leave it at that.

Alternatively, I'll be a lone traveller from now onwards. A lot of people go on trips on their own...it's really no big deal. Except maybe there will be fewer solo shots if I can't find anyone to take pic of me and some scenery, haha.

Yeah, no big deal. I just need to rant. I'm semi-depressed today.

3 comments:

Galaxy6139 said...

share with you... hope you would find out a boyfriend soon ^^

and don't worry if you travel alone, just bring a tripod, sometimes I did the same when go out alone ^^

Anonymous said...

haha oops... seems that im guilty of being one of those 'choosing bf over frens type' from now on. At least when it comes to travelling.

:( sorry. but im glad my bf is not THAT moronic yet.

J

Anonymous said...

I travel alone too :) i was in HK with a friend who complained everyday. I wish I could leave her behind.